Ever handle a guy tweaking hard on meth?
Or try to restrain him without any damage done – to him or you!
PCP? Spice? Bath Salts? In the throes of excited delirium?
There’s a point – you will not talk them down. That doesn’t happen and anyone who says different is selling something….
Perhaps someone having a psychotic break?
How ’bout a combination of one or more of the above – what I call the Three Ds- drunk, drugged, deranged?
Recently I had two reminders of this kind of “high” performance: One just a guy freakishly strong for his size- where once again jiujitsu proved its effectiveness as a method of restraint; The other a dude doing spectacular, movie-quality stunts in his supercharged state of desperation.
Think you might be dealing with some of these in a self defense encounter?
That this could be the guy you cut off – or that cut you off and you just had to say something out your rolled-down passenger window?
Or that you yell at to “Back Off!”when all he did was try to bum a smoke?
Or that you said “hey!” too when he stepped on your foot on the bus?
How are you preparing to handle such people? What are you learning? Because many instructors betray a lack of experience when they begin talking about what “works.” When they make it seem like every encounter is “easy,” like a drunken panhandler that can barely stand.
Sure the latter are probably more likely, but is that really what you are training for?
Over the years I’ve heard teachers, and read posts and blogs say some good things, only to shake my head when they wax pedagogical on things way outside their lane. And don’t think that former cops and convicts, bodyguards and bouncers, and “street fighters” are immune….All such claims to fame are prevalent in the personal myth-making (and money making) in the training community.
What people say they know, and how they say it, says a lot about what they don’t know.
I don’t take much for granted, nor do I take certain statements – or certain instructors – very seriously. Even though the rest of the world seem to think they are preaching gospel. You just need to have been around long enough, and seen enough, to get a balanced sense of things.